Facebook Pixel

Do you have questions on love, sex and relationships?

Country: Malawi Change your country

LoverBoy - I Take it Nice And Slow

I'm No Playa...

So this girl gave me her number, but I didn't know how long I should wait to call her.

My friend said a week, but not sooner than five days. That way she knows you're a guy of importance. And he knows women, he's a playa, so I managed five days, and I called.

And she goes: "I gave you my number last weekend and you're only calling now? You're a playa, is that it?" "No!" I said. "I'm really not!" "I think you are," she said. "You're a playa. I'm sorry but I don't go out with playas. I'm looking for someone sincere." "But I am sincere!" I said. "I'm not a ladies' man! I'm terrible with ladies! Ask any lady!" I don't know, I must have sounded desperate enough. Cos then she says.... "You're really not a playa?" "I swear I'm not a playa. I don't even know the game, never mind how to play," I promised her. "So you're not just trying to get into my pants, and then you're going to disappear?" "I swear. I believe in taking it slow." "You do?" "Very slow. So slow. Like holding-hands kind of slow. Give me a chance, I'll show you."

So I got the date. But now, to show I'm not a playa, I gotta go so slow, I don't even know what the point of the date is. I'm not winning here. Maybe I need to just stop getting advice from my buddies.

Do you get advice from your friends? Is it any good? Tell us below. Sometimes it’s best to follow your own advice!

Here are some good answers to tricky questions:

Comment

4 comments Log in to comment

Ambokire Cosie

Getting advise from friends its good but have to be careful with kind of friends giving you such advise and at the end of the day you will choose if that advice will work for you

4 months Ago Report

Recent Replies

Tune Me Moderator

Very true , as young people we need to be very careful with what our friends are telling us, we do not need to be involved in ugly activities and fall under the victim of peer pressure.

4 months Ago

Anonymous

Usjeej

4 months, 2 weeks Ago Report

0 Reply

Have a tip related to this article? Click here it share it!